to recap, i had a neo bladder in July last yr. i have been incontinent ever since.  i have seen another doc my surgeon referred me to.  i don't like what he is proposing, basically, a hammock.  my research has seemed to indicate this procedure is not so great. so, i have an appointment with another doc at the same institution (USC).  i hope i have all my questions ready and that she has an alternative that i can live with. perhaps a woman will understand a little better as the neos seem to be more successful on men than woman.  i guess if i/we switch the diversion i have (neo), it will depend on how much intestine was taken for the neo.  any ideas are welcome.       Sidra