17 years old with bladder cancer

Posted by: cody17 in bladder cancer on Print PDF

im new on this site and reading all the stories, i have to say theres a lot of people out there living with the same thing i am. at first when i found out that i had this cancer i wasnt scared i wasnt really anything. i think i was more upset that i had to miss work so much i had a new car and no way to pay the payments or anything really. but thats when my community came in to help they did fund raisers for me, my work payed my car off. i mean they help me in a way no one has or ever will. but anyway no i really didnt have any feelings about it. i got kinda worried after i had surgery and they just scraped the tumor. and then my doc told me it was very agressive. thats when it bothered me he told me that i was going to have to have my bladder taken out i thought lord im only 17 i found myself asking my self out of all the bad people in this world im the one who has to go though this. im so young i really didnt know what to do. my parents cryed my girlfriend and my friends it was so embarssing i just wanted everyone to leave me alone. i dont think at first i comprehended the whole cancer term. i go to have my bladder taken out and and a neo bladder made. i got scared the night before my surgery. i just wanted to run away lol. but after the surgery and after recovery. i will be speaking at our relay for life coming very soon im kinda scared about that. today i thank god everyday for the day. this has changed me in a mighty way. i look at life a very diff. way i take the time to look at the stars at night and not just about jumpin in the car and goin with my friends i charish every second. well i think thats enough out of me well i hope this helps someone out there. thanks for taking the time to read this

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Rosemary
March 22, 2007

Cody,

Hi!  Yes, 17 is way too young for this disease. It must have been a great shock for your doctor, as well as your family and friends.  

There is a poster here, however, who was born with BC, and I did read on the internet of a 10 year old that had BC.  Other than that, you are absolutely the youngest.

Here is a story of a boy who was 16 and had non-hodgkins lymphoma who did run away.  (Just in case you are interested.)  He did not want to continue with chemotherapy, so he ran away.  That was over 10 years ago, and he is still very much alive to tell about it.

http://www.billybest.net/index.htm


It is good that you are speaking out about this disease.  I hope that we hear much more from you.

Your always BC friend,
Rosemary

Christopher
March 22, 2007

Yeah Cody, I thought I was young at 35!  So how is the neobladder working?  Sexual function?

So any probably cause?  smilies/grin.gifid you smoke or use smokeless tobacco?  Anything else?

Tim B
March 23, 2007

Hey Cody
I was 29 when I was diagnosed and I remember always being at the hospital with older people. I learned a lot from them and their attitudes towards illness. But I got royally fed up of the docs always telling me how young I was to get BC! They'd also assumed that i must have done something wrong to get here. Anyway, maybe you're just lucky to have found it too. Who knows exactly how long these things take to develop and grow? Your youth is on your side as far as your ongoing recovery goes. I've had a neo at 43 and I feel pretty good right now so you have every chance of a great life. Go and grab it by the cajones!  Best of luck mate!

Tim

Jeff
May 06, 2007

Cody

I just read your story and was amazed at your young age to have to go through all of this. It just shows how BC is so indiscriminate in who it chooses to wrestle with. I do hope that your absence from the forum is related to what would be a busy life and you are enjoying your teen years still with your mates. Please post an update as there are many people in here like me who want to hear of your experience and offer their support.

Fond regards

Jeff


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