Desperate to understand!!

My mother-in-law was diagnosed with bladder cancer around 10 weeks ago,  she is severely disabled. When the doctors went in to remove the tumor they couldnt as it was blocking the urethra and kidney drains, they fed tubes into her kidneys to drain directly as her bladder couldnt cope. They have since done a bone scan and we are due to take her for a CT scan tomorrow, all  I know is that its a high grade cancer,  I am so worried about my husband and his brothers as their dad only passed a year ago from a sudden heart attack. Dos anyone know how to discribe high grade cancer and prognosis as the doctor is not being very clear, Thanks everyone, just reading this gives me strength.


Kind regards


Denise Scott Author