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|Relaxation, Meditation and Visualization|
Yoga, transcendental meditation, Tai-Chi, Chi Kung or Qi Gong, guided visualization...a common thread among all of these techniques is the practice of mindful relaxation. Mindful relaxation (meditation) is characterized by:
Mindful relaxation can have a powerful impact on our ability to extend life or expand our appreciation and awareness of our life experience. The dilemma for cancer warriors (those with cancer or caring for someone who has it) is we are presented with many roadblocks to achieving this relaxed state just when we need it most.
First, the initial diagnosis of cancer increases our stress level. We wonder why we got the disease and we may become preoccupied with what is in store for us. Second, cancer treatments can be physically demanding. We anticipate the possibility of side effects. We may actually experience side effects during treatment and it is possible that the negative reaction is heightened due to elevated stress levels. Third, as we progress through our treatments we have many thoughts like "did I select the correct treatment strategy?" or "what is the next check-up going to show?"
Don't get me wrong. We should be spending some time thinking about the past as well as the future. A review and inventory of our past experiences can help us understand our current situation. Plans and goals for the future are also an important part of our response to cancer. When this type of thinking takes over however, it will create extreme stress. We need to release ourselves from these damaging thoughts. Mindful relaxation allows us to be aware of the present moment and combat the negative past and future thoughts that raise our stress levels.
Quite simply, being relaxed feels good! Spend a minute or two on the following exercise. Close your eyes and think of a time when you were quite emotionally stressed and had difficulty extracting yourself from that feeling. Pick a situation when you weren't bothered by any physical ailments, you were just emotionally stressed. The memory will probably still create the same bad sensations in your body.
Now think of a time where you were very relaxed, not a care in the world. Visualize it in enough detail to bring back that stress-free feeling. You can probably feel the good sensation in your body, too. Quite a difference, isn't it?
Sometimes we think we are relaxing when in fact we are experiencing significant stress responses. Examples are going to a sporting event where you really are caught up in the outcome, or going to a movie that scares you or keeps you on the edge of your seat. We seek out these situations because they "pump us up" or give us a thrill. These may be enjoyable pastimes, but are not true relaxation.
True relaxation is the absence of stress. Deepak Chopra1 identifies three phases of stress: 1) the stressful event; 2) our inner appraisal of it; and 3) our body's reaction. The three phases may go by in an instant, so we often perceive them to be a single event. An example of this is the well-known "fight or flight response." Narrowly avoiding a car accident is a good example.
On the other hand, the actual stressful event may be a past memory or a future fear. Our inner appraisal of the event may preoccupy our minds, continuously replaying thoughts of past regrets or future fears. We have placed ourselves into a very unhealthy stress spiral. Mindful relaxation can help combat this spiral by bringing our awareness to the present moment.
The key to getting there is learning how to breathe.
Eating, drinking and breathing are all required to sustain life. You can go without food for weeks, water for days, but without breath…only moments. So breathing is a vital activity that takes us from moment to moment. Breathing is also one of the least conscious life-sustaining activities that we do. Mindful breathing centers our awareness on this unconscious act. Centering your awareness on breathing automatically moves your mind to the present moment.
By the way, it is also good to become more mindful of eating, drinking and other parts of our lives that we have learned to do semi-consciously.
The following steps are documented in several books, tapes and articles on relaxation. They are very easy to follow, but none of them should be left out.
Dr. Weil's Yogic breathing technique
Dr. Andrew Weil, holistic practitioner and writer has featured a yogic breathing exercise on his website (http://www.pathfinder.com/drweil/). In his article "Natural Health, Natural Medicine, Online Relaxation", he states, "The single most effective relaxation technique I know is conscious regulation of breath".
An alternative to breath counting meditation is a European technique called "Bubbles Meditation". For meditation to work properly, two things must occur: 1.) Slowing down the breath; 2.) Slowing down thoughts. By doing these two things, the mind can take a journey inward to calmness, healing and clearer thinking. To begin the practice of bubbles meditation, the following are important.
1.) Wear loose-fitting clothes that let you sit comfortably and unrestricted.
Our minds are healthier and our bodies more willing to heal if we can let go of the clutter that goes on inside of our heads each day. As Jung told us, " Not only can you analyze your unconscious, but you can also let the unconscious analyze you." Sometimes instead of thinking and doing, it is best if we just get out of the way! Letting go, meditating, visualizing or any other technique that allows our body to heal does not mean forgetting our sadness or making it magically go away. In fact, it means inviting our sadness to sit with us and observe it for it's healing presence, but not own it as a symptom of our own self-destruction or potential lack of courage.
A legend in India tells us that there is a way of cutting a hole in a coconut to catch a monkey. The hunter will cut a hole in the coconut that is just big enough for the monkey to put its hand through. They will drill two smaller holes in the other end, pass a wire through, and secure the coconut to the base of a tree. After putting a banana in the coconut, the hunter will hide awaiting the monkey. The monkey puts his hand in and takes hold of the banana. The hole is large enough that the open hand can go in but the fist cannot get out. All the monkey has to do to be free is to let go of the banana. But it seems most monkeys do not let go.
In spite of our intelligence, our minds continue to be caught in two ways. We see things that are pleasant and want to grasp them and cling so they never change. In addition, we see things that are frightening, sad or painful and long for them to go away. The pushing and pulling going on in our minds making the painful experiences never go away and the pleasant experiences never grow and expand. In the process of letting go, no experience is romanticized or rejected. One allows all experiences to be as they are and observe them for the growth and potential they have brought to our lives. When we observe our minds grasping and pushing, it is important to remind ourselves to let go of those impulses on purpose. Look at the way one is holding onto thoughts and imagine what it would feel like to let go. Practice feeling what you feel just before you fall asleep. Falling asleep is like letting go. Your thoughts slow down and your muscles relax, you follow a path and surrender to whatever sleep has in store for you. Your pain and your joy are still present but a relaxed calm of surrendering to healing and new knowledge permeate your body.
Thich Nhat Hanh2 talks about using everyday activities to awaken the mindfulness within us. Some examples are:
The common element to all of these techniques is don't dwell on stray thoughts, just move them to the side and keep paying attention to the activity.
Once you have developed the ability to get mindful, you can add visualization exercises to create a powerful sense of well being. Dr. David Simon3 discusses the concepts of attention and intention: "Shifting our awareness from one object to another is the process of directing our attention… Whatever we place our attention on increases in importance in our life; when we remove our attention it diminishes in significance." "Intention is the process of directing attention for a specific purpose." Visualization taps the power of intention. Here is some visualization examples from Dr. Simon's book:
Use these visualizations in combination with your breathing exercises. Make your own up too. When I get my BCG treatment I mentally repeat " I welcome this medicine into my body so it can teach me to heal myself" and visualize my cells and immune system learning from the BCG.
There are many tapes and CD's available that will take you on intense visualization journeys. A few of these are listed in the resources section. Again, a good set of headphones really pays off.
If the techniques described above are practiced regularly, you will feel less stress during a very stressful period in your life. Reducing stress has many physical benefits. But is there more to relaxation and meditation than making us feel better physically? This section explores that possibility.All of the world's major religions have some kind of meditative component. Deepak Chopra discusses this theme in detail in How to Know God4. In general, when one clears the mind and reaches a meditative state, a direct spiritual experience may take place. As Thomas Moore states in Meditations5, "In the presence of nothing, the soul rejoices." The relaxed state brought about by meditation may evolve to a feeling of spiritual connectedness or unity - a "oneness" with the universe.
David Harp6 alludes to a "Meditator's worldview" of "we are all one." He says:
The important element of the Meditator's worldview is that we are each much more than a tiny, isolated mind/body. We are instead a tiny but important part of a collective consciousness, which includes all that has ever existed. We've just momentarily lost sight of this fact…Gangaji7 talks about the Self and its revelation in the quiet mind.
The quiet mind reveals that which is always silent, that which both activity and inactivity spring from and return to, that which the experience of ignorance and the experience of enlightenment spring from and return to.
That is your own Self.
Finally, Kahlil Gibran (quoted by Deepak Chopra8) wrote this:
Yet the timeless in you is aware of life's timelessness
The benefits of mindful relaxation and meditation may go beyond the physical.
Mindful relaxation and meditation will bring you reduced stress, increased health and a connection with your inner spirit. Practice the techniques described here. If you like them, you may enjoy deepening your practice by reading, listening or viewing the resources listed in the next section.
What ever you do, try it!
I recommend getting the kind that cover the ears completely to keep the sound out. I am using SONY Professional headphones, MDR-7506. These or a similar quality will really pay off.
CD's and Tapes
Brainwave Journey, Dr. Jeffery Thompson and Owen Morrison; The Relaxation Company. This is a set of four compact discs: Journey of the MIND, Journey of the BODY, Journey of the HEART, Journey of the SPIRIT. A variety of sounds are combined with spoken guided visualization to take you on these journeys.
Sounds of Peace, Nawang Kheehog; Sounds True. Nawang is a flutist and former Buddhist monk. He plays echoing and peaceful instrumental sounds.
Liquid Mind III: Balance, Liquid Mind; Chuck Wild Records. Instrumental music. Very uplifting and good to relax by.
If you get DirecTv, try the music channel called "Atmospheres."
Amazon.com and other music retailers will usually have this type of music under "New Age."
Videos are especially good if you want to mix your meditation with body movements. Living Arts, http://www.livingarts.com/index.asp has a good set of Yoga tapes. I am using A.M Yoga by Rodney Yee. They have several others from beginner to advanced. You may also want to find a Beginner's Tai Chi video tape. I have an old one that came from Hilton Head and was produced there locally.
Please use your own judgement when looking at these sites!
http://www.chopra.com/ This esteemed M.D. and writer states that the purpose of his website is; "...dedicated to changing the prevailing worldview from one that views human beings as physical machines with thoughts to one that understands that we are conscious energy – Spirit – disguised as individuals."
http://www.holisticmed.com/www/energy.html Various energy healing approaches. Lots of links. I think some of the links are pretty controversial, so use your own good judgement.
http://yogaclass.com/central.html Good information on breathing and relaxation along with yoga.
http://www.santosha.com/index.html Another yoga site.
http://www.pathfinder.com/drweil/qa_answer/0,3189,1618,00.html Great link From Dr. Andrew Weil which talks about mindfulness. He has a couple of links and book suggestions on this page. Also type, in "meditation", "breathing" or "relaxation"at the search prompt and you will get more articles on these subjects.
http://www.healthjourneys.com/bio.html Health Journeys offers lots of different books, CD's and tapes on guided imagery. There are tons of good links from this site. Look under "Rings, Links and Awards."
Books listed here are in addition to those mentioned in the article and listed as a reference. BOOK TIP: Books on tape are a good way to "read" while driving, but don't play the meditative sections when you are at the wheel!
The Seat of the Soul, Gary Zukav; Fireside. Zukav questions the Western model of the soul, alleging that the human species is in the midst of a great transformation, evolving from a species that pursues power based upon the perceptions of the five senses--"external power"--to one that pursues power based upon perceptions of the soul--"authentic power."
Visualization for Treating Cancer, Patrick Fanning; New Harbinger Publications. This is an audio tape I picked up at a used book store. Pretty good if you can find it. Published 1992.
The Four Levels of Healing, Shakti Gawain; Hay House. Another audio tape from the used book store! Published in 1996.
Love, Medicine & Miracles, Bernie S. Siegel; Harper & Row, 1990. Bernie Siegel discusses the power of the mind over the body.
Contributed by Bob Skevington and Denise Wehri
|Last Updated ( Friday, 14 November 2008 )|