Two daysago, I was diagnosed with extensively invasive high grade urothelial carcinoma with deep muscle invasion.  I am a 49 year old female.  I will be going to the University of Chicago Hospital on Tuesday for a second opinion.  From everything I have read and the local urologist's recommendation, I will need to have my bladder removed.  When first researching, the neobladder seemed like the best choice.  The more I have researched, the more I seem to read about the neobladder not working as well for women (leaking, incontinence).  I would really appreciate any personal expereinces any of you would be willing to share as I face this important choice.  Thank you 🙂