Newly diagnosed: Scared, but hopeful

I was just recently diagnosed with bladder cancer and am still trying to learn more about this.

I love that I can talk to people going through the same thing since it is hard to talk to friends and family.  Though I am honest with them about what is happening, I feel that I must put on a "happy face" all the time.

 Right now I'm wondering how you find answers to your questions.  I wish I could put my doctor on speed dial, but know that is not realistic.

In addition, I can't find any information on whether is is better to have a urologist or an onocologist working with me.

Thanks for any info.

Viola Gaunce Author