MY name is Alisa, My husband was dx with metasized bladder cancer on 3/24/09-he is only 33, we have two children. The cancer has spread to his lymph node system, prostate, chest muscle and thigh muscle, according to our doctor he is unfortunate, he has been treated with cistoplatin, and gemzar, and ct scans showed in june the tumor and spots have reduced in size! Unfortunately during the break the cancer grew back some, is radiation an option? my husband is in soo much pain with his leg due to the cancer being in his thigh, I just feel like there should be more options for us. Anyone have any suggestions?