i had my bladder removed last July and have a neo bladder. i am very incontinent and may need further surgery to "correct" that (leaving me hyper continent.)  right now my CT Scan a few weeks ago showed a fistula (hole) from the neo to the vagina. i am now waiting, waiting and waiting for the corrective procedure/surgery for that to be scheduled.  i wonder if i will learn patience from all this…. 

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