Papillary Grade III

Husband just had TUR on 10/26/01 – not sure about stage, just Grade III. We are a wreck!!! Cannot sleep, cannot eat, just worry and think. Last of 6 BCG done on Jan 4, 2002.
Question is – Why don’t we just have the bladder removed now before it spreads?
Path report reads no spread to vascular or lymph, but into lamina propria small amount.

I’m thinking we should just have the darn bladder out now before it becomes invasive into muscle?