Really Scared

So Back In June I went to the urologist because I haf frequent urination. Which is strange because I'm only 30. Because I had a few bouts of this the Dr thought it be smart to do a cystoscopy.  During the test he said he saw a red spot that 'didn't look like cancer' but we should do another test in 3 months to follow up. The last test was last week, this time he says the red spot is still there and it's gotten bigger.

At this pointI'm feaked out, I ask him does it look like cancer? He tells me that it's borderline and we need to do a biopsy. I'm terrified, I'm 30 years old and can't believe this is happening to me..I don't know what to do..I'm not strong enough to fight cancer I don't think..Any advise on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated..